Revenge and lust: Men share why they cheated on their girlfriends

If you’ve ever been cheated on by your partner, then you probably went through the ‘why’ phase. Why did he do this to me? Why did I not see this coming? Why wasn’t I good enough for him? Chances are that you never got the answers to these questions.

That’s why we’re here, BUZZ fam. We went out and asked men, who admitted they have cheated on their partners, to tell us why, and they were gracious enough to give us the answers.

What are the odds that your ex (we hope) cheating partner is on this list?

Miguel, 31, engineer: I cheated for revenge. I found out my girlfriend of five years had cheated on me with someone in my circle. I was so angry, so I decided to get even. I cheated and told her about it. I can’t explain how I felt after I did it, but it wasn’t good. We broke up shortly after. 

Alex, 34, teacher: I met a girl while I was in a relationship. This girl was so sexy, beautiful and seductive, and I felt as if I had to have sex with her, so I did. My partner never found out. 

Kevin 26, medical student: The relationship was basically over. She had already cheated on me with multiple individuals, and at this point, I didn’t care. So, I went ahead and cheated and then told her afterwards that it was over. 

Tyson 41, taximan: My woman at home was just not doing the things dem, so I found a woman who would. Wi still going on still, even do my woman find out. I am just keeping a little more quiet now.

Jason 22, musician: For whatever reason girls always like musicians. And even when I’m in a relationship is like the temptation is just always there. A man nuh so strong.


What are some of the stories you have heard? Tell us in the comments below.